Miss Manners would slap your face with her full-length evening glove

Have you seen this? 88 Things You Need to Know Before Attending a Wedding (via Stephanie over at URBZEN) The author, a recent newlywed, is aware of the myriad guides that exist for brides, grooms, and the entourage involved in hosting the Big Day. She and her friends have graciously compiled a ”Guest Guide” that, were I [...]

Why

People have asked me why, especially since I started doing this publicly. Why blog? Why put your life out there for everyone to see? Why set yourself or someone you love up for an embarrassing election expose? There is a better answer than “Why not?” From Jul over at Thumbscre.ws: The Writer’s Catechism. (Spend some [...]

Happy Ho Ho Ho

I love Christmas, most of the time. I like having a home that looks and smells appropriately festive — there really is something about pine needles and cinnamon that makes me want to believe in Santa Claus. And I love Christmas music like a fat kid loves cake. Christmas in Vermont as a kid was [...]

Food intake and “Average Happiness over Time”

It’s been a while since I maintained a food log. I know, I know…a bazillion percent of people who lose weight and keep it off practice mindful eating, and a food journal is critical to that success. Well, eat me. I’ve become relatively good at prioritizing the things I need/want to spend my stress on, [...]

Not cupcakes IN A JAR

With friends like these, 4

Dear Miss LJ: You’re not technically among us yet, but I don’t really think it will take you long to learn that your dad is pretty special. Seriously. He has an effect on people — they love him fiercely, and I don’t know if they ever really know why. I’ve had some time to think [...]

President Ciggy McPuffer

Tom Brokaw called Obama on his smoking habit this weekend. I would love to rant and rave about this, to use my mom as my soapbox and scream at the POTUS-E for presenting a poor example to his children and to the country. “Damn it, Mr. Almost-President, you should be perfect!” I can’t do it. [...]

A good cause

Postsecret.com has been an important site for me over the years. It serves two real purposes — it appeals to the basic voyeuristic spirit of people (woohoo! secrets!), and, by giving everyone a glimpse into others’ lives, it makes them feel a little less alone in their private sorrows and dreams. “Them.” Me. Whoever. Y’all, [...]

Why isn’t this year over already?

I know. I’ve been quieter than usual. I blame a major site launch at work, some personal and professional drama, and the engrossing nature of my current knitting project. No offense. I mean, my knitting is orange and fuzzy, and you’re not. Frankly, I am flat exhausted. It seems silly and a gross understatement, given the course [...]

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